One of the best things you can do for your baby is have a healthy relationship with your partner.

The Bringing Baby Home (BBH) workshop

Having a baby can bring excitement and joy, rewarding experiences, and the opportunity to grow as a person yourself as you become a parent. It can also bring stress, physical and emotional challenges, and put strain on your relationship with your partner. Research shows that two-thirds of couples experience a significant reduction in marital satisfaction and a significant increase in conflict after the birth of their baby. Mood issues including post-partum depression are also a risk as increased stress, body changes, reduced sleep and self-care impact new parents. The Bringing Baby Home Program helps buffer against these possible outcomes.
The Bringing Baby Home (BBH) workshop is a research-based and research-tested psychoeducational workshop that is dedicated to improving the quality of life for babies and children by strengthening their families. Developed by renowned relationship and parenting experts, Drs. John and Julie Gottman.
The BBH program is perfect for those who are:
  • Interested in having a baby
  • Expecting a baby
  • Already parenting an infant or toddler (age 0-3)
The goal of BBH is to equip you with the knowledge and skill sets needed to constructively cope with the various changes that typically occur during the first three years after your baby is born.
In the Bringing Baby Home workshop, you and your partner will learn how to:
  • Strengthen your friendship
  • Increase intimacy and affection
  • Work through conflict with greater ease
  • Maintain relationship satisfaction
  • Reduce hostility
  • Create positive baby-child interactions
  • Ensure quality involvement for both parents
  • Reduce the incidence or severity of postpartum mood disorders
Not only will this program teach you what to expect during the transition to parenthood, it will also help you do things like:
  • Better understand child development
  • Create co-parenting strategies with your partner
  • Improve the way you and your partner communicate, connect, and compromise
  • Recognize signs of postpartum mood disorders and gain awareness of treatment options.
Having worked with many couples as they transition to parenthood, having a background working in reproductive mental health, as well as being the happily married mom of an active and thriving 10-year old boy, Sue is a skilled and experienced guide to help you navigate the transition to parenthood. “I’m passionate about helping couples develop the skills they need to face the transition to parenthood head on. It is exciting to be bringing this program to Kelowna as healthier couples means healthier families contributing to a healthier community”. Sue Musleh, M.Ed. RCC.

BBH Workshop Testimonials from Kelowna Couples

D & A (Mom & Dad)
"We really enjoyed the BBH workshop. We learned a lot of tools to help strengthen our relationship and bond; also to help prepare for the arrival of our child. We feel more confident in our abilities to cope and respond to conflicts. Very excellent material and course"
MF (Dad)
"This workshop has given me a fresh new hope & insight into my personal relationships with my significant other & my children. I would recommend it to anyone struggling with the prospect of parenting."
KG (Mom)
"I look forward to having these tools to improve & grow our family into healthy excellence."


New dates for BBH have not yet been set and will be based on community interest. If you would like to be added to the 'interested' list or would like to host a workshop for your group or organization, please email Sue at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

Cancellation Policy

If you need to cancel 21 days or more before the workshop start date, the fee you paid minus a $50 processing fee will be refunded to you. If however, you need to cancel within 21 days before the workshop start date, you will instead receive a credit to be applied to a future workshop within the next year.

Concerned about childcare?

Babes in arms (to 3 months) welcome! Also, onsite childcare for all ages may be arranged at additional cost if enough parents are interested. If interested, please email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. to inquire.

Concern About the Fee?

  • Some sliding scale spots available. Please call or email to inquire.
  • If your extended health plan covers Registered Clinical Counsellors, you may be able to submit receipts for reimbursement.

Please Note: The BBH program is educational and NOT a replacement for couple’s counselling/therapy.

For more info about Drs. John & Julie Gottman’s work, visit

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